A couple of weeks ago I stopped doing the kitchen cleanup after dinner. It got to be too much. My saintly wife does it all now, after putting the kids to bed.
We pay a helper lady to come over a few hours hours each week. Usually it's laundry or cooking, but recently she trimmed my toenails and fingernails. That's a bit of a challenge too.
Left grip is 17 pounds (17, 16, 17), right grip is 51 pounds (50, 51, 50).